Everyday struggles of a woman married to a stingy husband in Nigel!
There are hardly any surprises on special occasions!
Every woman looks forward to those special occasions—marriage anniversary, birthdays, New Year and what not. Now an occasion can only be memorable when she experiences something special on that day. Unfortunately, a man who would rather part with one of his body parts than money, would hardly bother to buy his wife a gift or surprise her with something special.
He was a very rich man since he was the one who managed our family business but he did not like giving me money for basic uses. Despite having a rich husband, I did not enjoy a good life. I had to work so that my son could start school because my husband had said that all the money he had was meant buy stocks of the business.
I started looking for casual lab-our because I almost slept hungry and this hurt me a lot. I did not understand why my husband was so glued to his money and even forgot to take care of our family.
One evening I decided to confront him and told him to stop being stingy with his money since he was denying myself and my son a chance to live a good life because I was always stressed about what we were going to eat.
I called one of my friends and told them I was at my wits end since my husband stinginess was too much. She told me not to leave the marriage but instead fight for it using Mama Ashili spells.
She said his spells would make my husband become a generous man with his money. She sent me his number and I called him. I told the doctor that I needed a spell that would finish my husband’s stinginess. He asked me to see him the following day.
I met her and she cast a spell that would make my husband listen to me when it came to money and also quit being stingy. she further gave me a herb to use on his food.
I cooked dinner that evening and used the herb. The next morning, he woke up and asked me if I needed money for anything. I could not believe it. He gave me the money that I needed and from then till date, my husband is no longer stingy and he provides to our family without hesitation.
I advise anyone with a similar problem to visit Mama. Just like a medical doctor, Mama does a diagnosis on his clients by asking a few questions for self-introspection in the area of one’s life such as challenges in financial and physical aspects, among others.
Mama says her spell casting powers work within 24 hours, and usually within the same day they are released. He handles general problems ranging from winning court cases, winning the lottery, protection of family and property, as well as accurately foretelling one’s future.
Many others who have been assisted by Mama say they have received powerful healing and are now more connected to their fellow lonely hearts.
Stingy boyfriend? Here are 3 ways to turn that around
And here’s why: no relationship thrives without sharing – and this goes beyond the things you can see and touch.
Partners also need to be able to give each other a corresponding amount of effort, respect, attention, love, affection… and yes… as many material things as they can afford. So if you are in a relationship with a guy who has problems sharing, especially on the level of material things, you are not overreacting by feeling uncomfortable with such behavior.If you are dating a man who does not attach a lot of importance of sharing and generosity, these are steps you need
1. Talk to him about it
This is the first base of all relationship issues. Sometimes people do some wrong things not with the intention to hurt, but because they think it is the right thing to do. By refusing to say anything and pretending all is fine when it’s not, you are not giving him the chance to know how you feel about certain issues.
So whether it is his stinginess or something else, do not hesitate to talk to him about it first and give him the opportunity to turn a new leaf.
2. Give him stuff
There’s also something to be said for ‘leading by example.’
In the present case, look for things he need, the gifts he’ll find most useful, then give him as much of that as you can find.
One of the ways to teach people how to relate with you is to relate with them in that same manner. Of course, it does not mean that they will get the clue and treat you like that, too, but it’s a step worth taking. Hopefully your man gets the point.
3. Hope you’re making your own money?
You’re not asking for too much if you want a man to share material things with you. And especially if your love language is getting gifts, that statement becomes a lot more accurate.
However, it is important to know that if this is the kind of relationship you want, you should not just be willing to spend that money on him or shower him with gifts and material things, you need to actually BE ABLE TO.
Making your own money and being able to afford gifts and other stuff for him, no matter how little, gives the relationship a feel of mutuality rather than parasitism.
Having said that, it is important to note that a stingy boyfriend and a broke boyfriend are not the same. If you are dating one of those, this is how to deal with him